It’s Okay To Fall In Love Again; Embrace The Beauty Of It!
I remember the first time I fell in love with someone, it was dreamy and everything felt like something out of a fantasy world. The acceptance, the love and the warmth from that person seemed like everything I always wanted but then reality happened to us and I realized that maybe what we have is not what we’re looking for.
Our worlds came tumbling down and even before we could comprehend what was going on, we are on two different paths. The dream was over and I was surrounded by reality. It shone so bright, I couldn’t open my eyes but with time I understood the importance of the same, I understood how important it was to step out of that darkness and embrace the beauty of reality.
I wouldn’t lie about not feeling lonely and hurt. I was losing sleep and I didn’t have the urge to eat. I didn’t have the desire to step out as every place hit me hard with nostalgia and I didn’t know if I had the energy to face all of it. Every part of me constantly told me that I’d never fall in love again.
Things were going to change soon and one must always keep in mind that there is no damage beyond repair. The second time you fall in love again, it is certainly not the same but it is beautiful and most importantly, it is possible. The dreamlike fantasy fades with time cause now you know there is no fairy tale and happy endings are not mandatory.
Falling in love again is more like a stage of self-discovery. Slowly, you discover that you have the power and the ability to love different people with different personalities, likes, and interests and it can initially leave you feeling slightly disoriented.
When you fall in love for the second time, you are more strong, you have more faith in yourself. You know what a damage feels like, you have already experienced a heartbreak so you’re mentally ready to experience a raw, imperfect love, love that has flaws and you embrace it for its imperfections.
The second time you fall in love, you have more sanity. You know what can lead to arguments and how to fix things when you mess up. It’s okay to come out of your comfort zone and appreciate the power of love. As humans, it is okay to fall in love again and again maybe but always remember one thing, no two loves will ever be the same and that’s the beauty of it.
Have you gone through a heartbreak but have been brave enough to give yourself one more chance? Share your story with us in the comment section!
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